존댓말 vs 반말 (말투의 기본)

존댓말 vs 반말 — Speech level

존댓말 = polite. 반말 = casual.

When to use

존댓말 (polite)

  • Use with strangers
  • Use with older people
  • Use at work / school

반말 (casual)

  • Use with close friends
  • Use with kids
  • Often: only after “말 놓을까요?

Basic endings

존댓말: -

  • 가요 / 먹어요 / 좋아요
  • 예요 / 이에요

반말: -/-

  • / 먹어 / 좋아
  • / 이야

Mini examples

Same meaning

  • 존댓말: 지금 가요.
  • 반말: 지금 가.
  • 존댓말: 뭐예요?
  • 반말: 뭐야?

Safe tip

  • Start with 존댓말. It is always safe.
  • Use 반말 only when you are sure.

Safe rule: Start with -(존댓말).