높임 (nop-im, nopim) · 낮춤 (naj-chum, najchum) · 중립 (jung-rip, jungrip)
높임, 낮춤, and 중립 differ in how they express respect and attitude toward the listener or subject in speech.
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Speech style that expresses respect or honor toward the listener or subject
When to use
Talking to elders, Reporting to a boss, Speaking in formal settings
The nuance
높임 is used when elevating or showing respect toward the listener or subject, typically including honorifics and polite speech forms.
Speech style that lowers oneself or one's actions to show humility or modesty
When to use
Expressing humility about oneself, Apologizing, Expressing thanks
The nuance
낮춤 is used to humble oneself or one's actions, often in contexts where the listener is being elevated.
Speech style that maintains a neutral, objective tone without elevating or humbling anyone
When to use
Talking with friends, Casual talk with coworkers, Non-formal situations
The nuance
중립 is used to keep a neutral tone without honorifics or humility, often in casual or everyday conversations.
할아버지께 인사드릴 때는 높임을 사용해야 한다.
hal-a-beo-ji-kke in-sa-deu-ril ttae-neun nop-im-eul sa-yong-hae-ya han-da., hal a beo ji kke in sa deu ril ttae neun nop im eul sa yong hae ya han da.
It is appropriate to use honorifics when greeting elders to show respect.
친구에게 반말로 높임을 한다.
chin-gu-e-ge ban-mal-ro nop-im-eul han-da., chin gu e ge ban mal ro nop im eul han da.
Using honorifics with friends in casual speech is incorrect; neutral or humble forms are more appropriate.
사과할 때는 자신의 행동을 낮춰 말하는 낮춤 표현을 쓴다.
sa-gwa-hal ttae-neun ja-sin-ui haeng-dong-eul naj-chwo mal-ha-neun naj-chum pyo-hyeon-eul sseun-da., sa gwa hal ttae neun ja sin ui haeng dong eul naj chwo mal ha neun naj chum pyo hyeon eul sseun da.
Apologizing requires humble expressions to show modesty, so 낮춤 is correct.
상사에게 보고할 때 중립적인 말투를 쓴다.
sang-sa-e-ge bo-go-hal ttae jung-rip-jeok-in mal-tu-reul sseun-da., sang sa e ge bo go hal ttae jung rip jeok in mal tu reul sseun da.
Reporting to a boss requires respectful speech (높임); neutral tone is inappropriate.
친구와 대화할 때는 중립적인 표현을 주로 사용한다.
chin-gu-wa dae-hwa-hal ttae-neun jung-rip-jeok-in pyo-hyeon-eul ju-ro sa-yong-han-da., chin gu wa dae hwa hal ttae neun jung rip jeok in pyo hyeon eul ju ro sa yong han da.
Neutral expressions are natural when talking with friends without honorifics or humility.
감사 인사를 할 때는 높임만 사용한다.
gam-sa in-sa-reul hal ttae-neun nop-im-man sa-yong-han-da., gam sa in sa reul hal ttae neun nop im man sa yong han da.
When expressing thanks, humble (낮춤) expressions about oneself are commonly used along with honorifics.
회의 중에는 중립적인 말투가 적절하다.
hoe-ui jung-e-neun jung-rip-jeok-in mal-tu-ga jeok-jeol-ha-da., hoe ui jung e neun jung rip jeok in mal tu ga jeok jeol ha da.
In meetings that are formal but less strict, neutral speech is appropriate.
어른 앞에서 낮춤 표현을 사용한다.
eo-reun ap-e-seo naj-chum pyo-hyeon-eul sa-yong-han-da., eo reun ap e seo naj chum pyo hyeon eul sa yong han da.
In front of elders, honorific (높임) expressions must be used, not humble (낮춤).
Which speech style is most appropriate when reporting to a boss?
Which speech style is mainly used when talking casually with friends?
Which speech style is used when apologizing?
